Sexual Dysfunctions and
Clinical Hypnotherapy
There are six sexual dysfunctions, three male and
three female, i.e.
Male:
Impotence (Erectile Dysfunction - unable to get an
erection)
Premature Ejaculation (Ejaculating early in the
sex act)
Retarded Ejaculation (Ejaculating only after a
long time and without withholding
it)
Female:
Vaginismus (The tightening of the vagina wall
muscles before intercourse preventing
penetration)
Orgasmic Dysfunction (Unable to
reach a climax)
General Unresponsiveness (Frigidity - no interest in
the sex act)
For proper sexual functioning to take place a
person must not only be free of excessive cognitive,
physical or mental, control, but must also be free of
intense negative thoughts and effects. In other
words, good sex requires a calm emotional state and
abandonment to the erotic experience.
Masters and Johnson (The well-known experts of the
60's in sexual behaviour and still considered to be so) said
that the above problems mainly originate in:
Performance Anxiety (e.g. Concern the partner will
be disappointed)
Superficial Insecurities (e.g. Lack of confidence,
depression, stress, etc.)
Tensions (e.g. Due to lack of communication with
one’s mate)
Anxiety (Born of misconceptions about human sexual
response)
Additionally, guilt may also cause a person to
avoid sexual contact and/or restrict his/her sexual
behaviour. These feelings
of guilt can be the result of myths, e.g. penis size (the
average size of a Western penis is 6"), masturbation
(everyone has or does masturbate), male/female functioning
(often it is believed that the male should be dominant and
the female submissive), fantasies during the sexual act (our
thoughts during intercourse begin to fantasize and can cause
guilt), etc. (Basically,
anything is permitted when having sex, providing both
partners agree and do not object).
There are a number of ways that Sexual
Dysfunctions can be dealt with including Behavioural
Conditioning.
However, in the author's opinion, the use of
hypnosis by a competent Hypnotherapist who has been fully
training is Clinical Hypnotherapy, is by far the
best.
Clinical Hypnotherapy looks at the root cause of
the problem and then using deep relaxation reprograms the
Unconscious Mind to accept that the problem should and does
not exist.
Of course, it must be borne in mind that some of
the above problems are purely physical and must, therefore,
be dealt with on a physical level.
However, if the problem is psychosomatic in
nature, a small number of Clinical Hypnotherapy sessions
could provide a lasting and enjoyable sex
life.
This subject is
covered in much more detail on the College's Clinical
Hypnotherapy Course.
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