Hypnotize
Yourself
Right
Now!
Although I
do not teach this method on my Hypnotherapy Diploma Course as
my method is best taught whilst under hypnosis, I would like to
show you an interesting technique to hypnotize yourself. It is
known as the Betty Erickson technique as she devised it to
hypnotize herself. Betty’s husband Milton Erickson is of
course, the father of all hypnosis
techniques.
This method to hypnotize yourself is
based on:
Our
thoughts are in either pictures, sounds or feelings. If you
decide to learn hypnotherapy through my Hypnotherapy Training,
you will learn more about this concept. However, as a guide the
following may help you to understand more
fully.
When
thinking in pictures we refer to the external things we see and
the internal images that we create. This includes remembered
images ("Your journey to work'"), constructed images ("What
would it look like if you painted your car orange."), as well
as remembering the real things we see about
us.
When we
think in sounds these are the things we hear and the internal
sounds that we create. ("Think of your favourite music."),
imagined words or sounds ("Imagine that music being played on a
different instrument."), and also includes your internal
dialogue as well as all of the real, actual, live sounds around
us.
Thirdly,
are the things we feel. These can be actual physical sensations
or imagined ones. Can you imagine being with someone you love
and touching them?
Most of us
use one more than the others; though we normally use all three
of them at sometime or another. Since this is usually the case,
an individual who "thinks" in images wouldn't hypnotize
themselves the best simply by visualising.
Focused
Attention:
Some people
still believe the nonsense imprinted in their minds by
fictitious stories (Svengali an example) of hypnotists holding
watches or pendulums for clients to stare at that results in
much misunderstanding about hypnosis. Personally, I have never
used such devices! The experience of hypnosis is typically an
inwardly focused one in which we move away from the environment
around us and turn our attention inward. This technique of self
hypnosis is doing that even more.
The
Self-Hypnosis Technique:
Step 1: Find a comfortable
position and get your self relaxed and settled. Get into a
position that you will be able to maintain easily for the time
you are going to hypnotise yourself. It can be sitting or lying
down, though sitting comfortably is recommended to prevent you
from falling asleep. Look in front of you and breath slowly and
easily. Letting yourself relax and keeping your eyes
open..
Step 2: Think about the
length of time that you intend to spend in this state and make
a statement to yourself about it such as "I am going into
self-hypnosis for 15 minutes ... " (or however long you want)
You will be delighted to discover how well you "internal clock"
can keep track of the time for you. Also make a statement to
yourself that 'Should anything unusual happen whilst you are in
self hypnosis, such as the smell of smoke or someone touching
you, you immediately come out of the self hypnosis and be wide
awake and alert.' Although this would normally happen, it is
simply a precaution.
Step 3: What would you like
to get out of this? Make a statement to yourself about the
reason you want to hypnotize yourself. In this process, you
allow your unconscious mind to work on an issue rather than
giving suggestions throughout, (that is another technique) so
our reason for entering into self-hypnosis should reflect that
fact. Here's how I recommend you phrase it to yourself : " I am
going to hypnotize myself to allow my unconscious mind to make
changes in my behaviour and life that are appropriate to assist
me in being/becoming/reaching my goal of/(or anything else, but
only ONE suggestion not multiple suggestions of change)
_____________."
Filling in
the blank with what you want to achieve such as "developing
more confidence in social situations." The actual words aren't
nearly as important as the fact your statement acknowledges
that you are turning this process over to your unconscious
mind. Be extra careful that you phrase everything in a positive
manner and not negative. You unconscious mind will take your
words literally and to say something like 'to get rid of my
boyfriend' could have negative results. In my Hypnotherapy
Course, you have this explained in much details as it is so
important when contacting the unconscious
mind.
Step 4: Looking in front of
you, notice three things, one at a time, that you see. Go
slowly, pausing for a moment on each. It is preferable that
they be small things, such as a spot on the wall, a doorknob,
the corner of a picture frame, etc. Some people like to name
the items as they look at them - "I see the hinge on the door
frame".
Step 5: Now turn your
attention to your auditory channel and notice, one by one,
three things that you hear. (When you have closed your eyes,
this will push the background sounds you hear into exactly what
they are, background sounds, and they will not distract you
from your goal.)
Step 6: Next, attend to your
feelings and notice three sensations that you can feel right
now. Again, go slowly from one to the next. It is useful to use
sensations that you are not normally aware of, such as the
feeling of your wrist watch, the texture of your shirt on your
body, etc.
Step 7: Repeat the process
using two of the Visuals, then two auditory and then two
feelings. Then, in the same manner, continue (slowly) with one
of each.
You have
now completed the "external" part of the process to hypnotize
yourself.
Now it's
time to begin the "internal" part.
Step 8: Now close your eyes
and allow an image to appear in your mind. Don't work too hard
at this; this is fun, remember? You can construct an image or
simply take what comes. It can be anything, a beautiful beach,
your car or even an apple, virtually anything. If something
comes to you, just use it. If nothing comes, feel free to put
something in your mind.
Step 9: Pause and let a
sound come into your awareness or generate one and name it.
Although this is technically the internal part, if you should
hear a sound outside or in the room with you, it is OK to use
that. Remember that the idea is to incorporate things that you
experience rather than being distracted by
them.
Step 10: Become aware of a
feeling and name it. It is preferable to do this internally -
use your imagination. (I feel the warmth of the sun on my face)
However, as with the auditory, if you actually have a physical
sensation that gets your attention, use that.
Repeat the
process with two images, then two sounds, then two feelings.
Repeat the cycle once again using three images, sounds and
feelings.
Then to
complete the process, open your eyes when your allotted time is
up - It is not unusual to feel a little bit disorientated but
that will soon pass and don't worry if you feel you have fallen
asleep. Normally you will find yourself coming back
automatically at the end of the allotted time that you set
before you chose to do self hypnosis and hypnotize
yourself.
Trust that
you weren't sleeping and that your unconscious mind was doing
what you asked of it.
Sometimes
you don't get all the way through the process. That's perfectly
all right. If you should complete the process before the time
has ended, just continue with 4 and then 5 images, sounds as it
is a way of getting yourself acquainted with how to hypnotize
yourself.
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