I spit on
you!
What else can I
do?
Some years ago I ushered a
client into my consulting room. He had come to see me as he
thought that Hypnotherapy would help him with an embarrassing
personal problem.
For a year
he had been unable to swallow his spittle. The result was that
he had to carry a bundle of handkerchiefs everywhere he went
and when his mouth filled with spittle, he had to spit it into
a handkerchief.
Not only
was this socially unacceptable but it also spilled over into
his relationship with his wife. I obviously do not want to
paint a picture of what his bedroom activities consisted of,
but let's just say his wife was not happy with
them.
For the
sake of describing his sessions with me, I will call him
John.
John came
to me only after all other avenues had been explored and
failed. He was a very unhappy man and the story he told me
about his life before the problem started was one of success in
the building industry.
He had been
in partnership with his best friend and through hard work and
dedication, they had built a very successful business, and more
importantly, he was respected for his
success.
Unfortunately, he was a an excellent builder but not an
astute business man and he was sent into a deep shock when
approximately three years earlier his partner absconded with
all of the business assets, leaving him to sort out debts and
unfinished work.
John was an
honourable and honest man and fought the feelings of betrayal
and depression and eventually managed to get his business back
up and running. Even so, it was not as successful as before,
but he was happy to just be able to hold his head high and earn
a comfortable living. However, about two years after his
partner betrayed him, he developed a lack of being able to
swallow his spittle.
I learned
all I needed to know during his first visit and then arranged a
series of therapies with him to help with his
problem.
The Therapy
All
Hypnotherapy Training Courses will advise you that you must
always analyse a presenting symptom through the use of hypnosis
and in particular hypnotic regression techniques. I agree with
that, but only so far, as I believe that the initial
consultation can almost always give you important clues as to
what causes a client's problem.
Sometimes,
regression hypnosis is not required and in this case, I
believed that as the presenting symptoms were physical, it was
almost certain that there was a psychological reason for
it.
Also I knew
that through my own teachings on Organ Language and the Delayed
Shock Symptoms, that there was a definite pattern
involved.
So, the
second session consisted of using hypnosis to take him back in
time to the moment he found out his ex-partner had stolen his
money and ruined his business.
He was
extremely emotional and when I asked him what he thought of his
partner's act, he replied with anguish in his voice that he
'just could not swallow it'.
Conclusion
That was
the clue I was looking for. My students know from my
Hypnotherapy Course that the Unconscious Mind literally
translates words and sayings into physical actions or
illnesses. We have expressions such as, 'I cannot stomach that'
that leads to stomach problems. Or, 'I need to get it off my
chest' that leads to chest complaints. 'I cannot swallow that'
is another expression we use in the English
language.
What many
Hypnotherapists and Psychologists do not know is that it can
take upwards of two years before the Unconscious Mind will
manifest an illness as a result of such
sayings.
John's case
was typical and easily resolved.
A further
four sessions used to influence the Unconscious Mind into
changing the outcome of the unfortunate saying, resolved the
problem.
This case illustrates the
fascinating side to Hypnotherapy and emphasises the importance
in good hypnotherapy training
courses.
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