Stop YOU
Smoking?
You Cannot be
Serious!
As a Hypnotherapist of many,
many years, and as a Hypnotherapy Training
instructor, if I had a
penny for every time I have been asked if I can stop someone
smoking, I would be able to afford a first class ticket on my
next flight to The Philippines.
Stop Smoking and Losing
Weight are known in the trade as the 'bread and butter' of a
Hypnotherapist's practice and most people forget that a
Hypnotherapist deals with a wide variety of problems, smoking
and losing weight being only a small part of
them.
However, many people who have
seen a stage hypnotist perform his 'amazing control' (see my
other article on stage hypnosis later in this series) over some
poor 'volunteer' on stage, actually believes that a
Hypnotherapist need only put a person into a trance, and with a
snap of the fingers command him or her to "STOP SMOKING
IMMEDIATELY" and like magic, that person will never smoke
again. Of course that is pure
nonsense!
Others believe that a
Hypnotherapist can implant a suggestion in the mind that makes
cigarettes taste repulsive, making it impossible to smoke a
cigarette without vomiting. Again, that is nonsense, even
though it is possible.
The simple truth is that no Hypnotherapist in the world can
stop someone smoking.
Yes, you read that right!
Nobody can stop you smoking.
However, a good
Hypnotherapist can help you to stop.
Note the difference.
Help you, not stop you. If you do not want to stop smoking, nobody
on this earth can make you, unless you are locked up in a room
with no windows and a straight jacket. Even if you had no money
to buy cigarettes, you would do what so many people in war-time
Britain did, look for discarded cigarette butts and collect
them, roll them up in a cigarette paper and then with a look of
content, smoke them.
So when someone asks me if I
can stop them smoking, my reply is
always,
"No, but if you really do want to
stop smoking, and for yourself and not for someone else or if
you are not being pressured into it, I can probably succeed in
helping you to stop."
Why oh Why?
The reason for this is also
quite simple. A smoker needs to smoke and that need is at an
unconscious level.
As the Unconscious Mind is
far, far stronger than the Conscious Mind, it will ALWAYS win a
war between the two. Ok, sometimes the Conscious Mind wins a
battle (I call this The
Spartacus Factor) and
there is a brief period when no smoking takes place, but in the
end, the war is won by the Unconscious mind, and smoking takes
place.
A good Hypnotherapist,
therefore, will know that and deal with the smoking problem at
an Unconscious level and even though a smoker may say he or she
wants to stop smoking at a conscious level, it is necessary to
get the Unconscious to co-operate. Otherwise, the
Hypnotherapist is not doing his job.
That's where hypnosis takes
place as it gives a Hypnotherapist access to the Unconscious
Mind and with skilful manipulation, the Unconscious will help
the smoker to stop permanently.
Any Hypnotherapist that
claims he or she can stop you smoking, especially if the claim
is with one single session, is simply
taking your money under
false pretences.
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NOTE: The whole of this article can be
reproduced providing the following Bio is
included:
"Robert Shields, is the Principal of The
Robert Shields College and runs a low cost Hypnotherapy
Diploma Training Course that includes a money-back
guarantee. Details can be found at: http://www.hypnotherapy-training.com
He is also the originator of Fear Elimination Therapy
that removes phobias and fears in minutes (Not N.L.P.).
Details at: http://www.hypnotherapy-training.com/fet.html .
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